7. Growth

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But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be the glory both now and to the day of eternity. Amen. (2 Peter 3:18)

Just as babies grow to be toddlers, toddlers develop into teens, and teens grow up into adults, so Christians grow and mature. We grow in our relationship with Jesus and in our appreciation for all he has done for us. And we grow up, maturing toward becoming like Jesus.1 The grace that gives us life in Jesus is the grace that grows us in Jesus.

Two Bible passages help us to understand this growth.

Life in Jesus

For we ourselves were once foolish, disobedient, led astray, slaves to various passions and pleasures, passing our days in malice and envy, hated by others and hating one another. But when the goodness and loving kindness of God our Savior appeared, he saved us, not because of works done by us in righteousness, but according to his own mercy, by the washing of regeneration and renewal of the Holy Spirit, whom he poured out on us richly through Jesus Christ our Savior, so that being justified by his grace we might become heirs according to the hope of eternal life.

(Titus 3:3–7)

When we first come to Jesus, we have some awareness of our sin, enough to make us realize our need for him. Like when we discover mold in our home, we know there is a problem and that we need to do something about it. It’s only when we take a closer look that we come to realize the full extent of the problem and just how serious it is.

As we grow and mature as Christians, we come to see how invasive and widespread sin is in our lives. It seems to be everywhere. Our hearts can be a breeding ground for sin. We discover a lack of love for God and others. Even the best of our intentions are tainted with selfish motives.

Just as bright light exposes dirt and grime, the closer we grow to God, the clearer we will see the guilt and the extent our sin. Yet no matter how great our sin is, the grace of God in Jesus is greater.2 Whatever sin we discover in our lives, we can know that that sin was accounted for by God and paid for at the cross of Jesus Christ.

Over the course of our Christian lives, we grow in appreciation for this amazing grace of God to us in Jesus. As we see our sin, our amazement grows that God would love us and give his Son for us, and our hearts are filled with peace, joy, and gratitude.

Every day we need to keep the gospel, God’s good news, front and center, reminding ourselves of God’s mercy, grace, and love for us in Jesus. It is easy for us in sinful pride to think that we need Jesus less than some others or to mistake our Christian growth to mean that our obedience makes us better in God’s sight, and so we don’t need Jesus as much.

The first way we grow as Christians is downward, becoming more fully rooted in the grace and knowledge of Jesus. Look again at the passage above and answer these questions: Why did God save you? How did God save you? Throughout your Christian life, you will need to remind yourself of God’s answers so that Jesus will receive “the glory both now and to the day of eternity” (2 Peter 3:18).

Life with Jesus

For the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation for all people, training us to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives in the present age, waiting for our blessed hope, the appearing of the glory of our great God and Savior Jesus Christ, who gave himself for us to redeem us from all lawlessness and to purify for himself a people for his own possession who are zealous for good works.

(Titus 2:11–14)

The second way we grow as Christians is developmentally, from the inside out, as God grows us by His grace to become more like Jesus.3

Did you know that flamingos are not naturally pink? They are born a dull gray and gain their pink color from what they eat. The pigments from their diet saturate their skin and feathers so that their pink hue becomes even more pronounced.

That is how it works in our life with Jesus. As we open our mouths in prayer, feed on the truth of God’s Word (the Bible), savor God’s glory, goodness and grace in our hearts, and find our strength in Jesus for the journey, we will increasingly take on the character of Christ. Our transformation will not just be on the outside either, but in the whole of our being.

To help us understand, Jesus used a metaphor of himself as the vine and us as the branches.4 Branches get their life from being connected to the vine. We are branches that, by God’s grace, find life in Jesus and that draw upon Him for our maturity, vitality, strength, and fruitfulness.

If we truly have life in Jesus, his presence will show up in our beliefs,5 our behavior,6 our ambitions,7 our motivations8, the way we do our work,9 the way we treat our family10—everything about us.11 Life in Jesus will flow out in life with Jesus.

All this has to do with God’s handiwork of grace in our lives. As the passage above emphasizes, it is the grace of God in Christ that trains us and transforms us. While we are the ones who endeavor to live lives pleasing to our Father in heaven, it is God who works in us by his power to bring forth the fruit of our salvation—fruit that is authentic, abounding, and abiding.12